At some point along this ride we have to start saying yes to the things we want. It’s even bigger than that though. There’s this thing we have to get past. It’s called permission.
I have found that there were some things I wasn’t getting out of life because I wouldn’t give myself permission to have what I say it is I want. Yes, I would talk my friends ears off about the life I wanted for myself. I had big dreams and that’s all they were. There wasn’t a plan to get any of it. As they say, “a goal without a plan is just a dream.” {tweet this} I finally figured out that I didn’t think I was allowed to have the life, the home, the career I wanted. I guess, on some level, I thought that type of “on your own terms” living was reserved for a select few.
Then, I decided to tell myself a different story. As I sat down to make one of my MANY lists, I gave myself permission to have everything on those lists. It sounds so simple but telling myself yes was really one of the first steps to living a life that brings me a little more happy. And who couldn’t use a little more happy, right?
I said yes to being an author, which led me down the road of entrepreneur. That was something I hadn’t so much considered but have eagerly said yes to. The most rewarding yes had to be the decision to spend more time at home with my kids. Here’s what I’m learning, there are some things that keep nagging at us. There are things to change, things we want, etc. Once we give in and say yes, the details kinda fill themselves in. Here are a few more things on my “PERMISSION GRANTED!” list:
- A healthier lifestyle – I’m slowly moving our family to a more plant based diet. Got any great recipes? Feel free to share!
- Extra energy – I think this is going to come with a commitment to consistently work out and get more sleep.
- Less stress – I tend to take on a million things. I’ll be scaling down my list.
- Conquering overwhelm – See above! LOL!
- Keeping a positive out look – I think all of these things will help keep my outlook in check. 🙂
So, now your turn. PERMISSION GRANTED! What’s one thing big or small that you could say yes to?
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LOVE LOVE LOVE this post! I found so much motivation and inspiration in it. Today I am giving myself permission for all-out, no-holds-barred success and to be one of those select few who “live on their own terms”! Thanks for this! 😀
Viki Stanley-Hutchison recently posted…Your Story: Re-Focus, Refuse, and Re-Write ~ The Grief + Healing Series Part III
This is a great post.There is a lot of things i need to say yes to myself more. 1 being not to take on too much and get more rest.(never happens lol).
Kay Adeola recently posted…Belinda And Bolt
I think this is so true for so many people! Such a great post! I need to give myself permission to accept success. I feel like I hold myself back on a lot of levels! Thanks for sharing!
Shelley recently posted…Safe Driving Catchphrase Contest #DecideToDrive
I finally gave myself permission to rebrand. It’s in the works, and I’m so at peace with the decision now that I finally went there.
Liz Mays recently posted…In the Event of an Emergency, You NEED a TIKE Sticker! #MasteringAuto
I definitely need to learn to say yes to myself more. it’s not always easy, though!
Robin (Masshole Mommy) recently posted…Our Day at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park
Fantastic post. I love to make lists.
Debbie Denny recently posted…Music, Comedy, Family Fun – Clay Cooper – Comedy Express!
Ugh right now it’s permission to be sick and not work. Yeah I still have to work. Sigh. 🙂
Really nice post – give yourself permission to do anything that makes your heart sing…that is my feeling! And I have way too many recipes to share, so if you let me know what you crave the most, I’d be happy to send some suggestions your way!
Stacey recently posted…Wednesday’s Whisper: “Impact”
Such an inspiring post. I give myself permission to follow my heart more often.
Virginia @thatbaldchick recently posted…30 Days to a More Beautiful You
I definitely need to give myself permission to do more. Especially more for myself. And that does mean taking care of myself, too!
Krystyn @ Really, Are You Serious? recently posted…Happiness is…
Spot on! Our beliefs, language and thoughts are such key players in our life. I love how you are taking action! So many people say, “I wish I could… or someday… Or a pet peeve for me, “The problem with that is, and then there is an excuse. You are just going for it. So inspiring! Thanks so much 😉
Melissa recently posted…4 Easy Steps To Clear Your Fear Of Change.
I need to say yes to getting my house back in order and getting organized. And a toned down version of creating my life the way I would love for it to be.
Beth@FrugalFroggie recently posted…Deanna Dawson with Thirty-One totes and bags
I am scaling down my lists too. You can only do so much in the day, and the important things in life have to come first.
Meranda recently posted…How Far Is Too Far With Photoshop Beauty?
I love the positive message here. That way of thinking has turned my life around. I give myself permission to ask for what I want these days, i.e., not working for free!
thanks,
Mitch
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I like the positivity. I need to really get optimistic, work hard, and see the results!
krystalskitsch recently posted…Summer Recipes: Spicy Shrimp Nachos With Hunt’s Tomatoes #DinnerDone
I should be able to say ‘yes’ to allowing myself guilt-free down time! I always put myself last in the family but that can be detrimental for all of us.
TerriAnn @ Driving Mamas recently posted…4 Car Shopping Tips: How to Buy a New Car Without the Headaches Part 3 of 3
Oh, I’d love to give myself permission to go to bed early tonight and FORGET about all the work I have piled up. But… I have a feeling I can’t bring myself to do that.
Awesome post! I give myself permission to succeed in my new life! Thank you for the inspiration!
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I love every word of this! I can say yes to taking time for myself. With a little one at home, I sometimes put myself on the back burner……
Those are great goals. I have many of the same. I just got into oils big time and it has been helping me with so much!! You can do this!!
Emily recently posted…Breastfeeding Deacon: Our 17 Month Struggle & Sudden Weaning
This is a great post! There are so many things that I deprive myself from, but not because I need to, but because it won’t be good for me. However, lately, I discover that there are also good things that I don’t give myself a chance to have and this post reminds me to have a quick break from time to time. Thanks for this post. 🙂
Sometimes it is necessary to say yes and give yourself permission to do something. Especially when you’re your own boss.
Jenn @ The Rebel Chick recently posted…Make Every Day A Holiday with Peeps Minis #PeepsMinis
I have switched to an almost raw vegan diet about a year ago and I use doTERRA oils instead of medicine. As I get older I realize that good health is up to the individual
This is a great post. Permission to be healthier, have more fun, love without fear, know that everything is aligned for the greater good. Beautiful reminder. If you need recipes let me know!
So glad you’re thinking positive too! I give myself permission to exercise more!
Christie recently posted…7 Tips You May NOT Know About Eyes & Sun Damage
ME TIME!!! When I started to accept the fact that it is okay for me to have ME TIME. Very valuable lesson I learned. Take care of myself 1st then the rest will follow. It is so true!
To keep doing what I love and to keep helping other because you never know when it’s YOU who needs the help.
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I have some things in my life that could use ‘permission granted’ stamps on them. This post is inspiring!
Great post! Inspiring…I need to say yes more to the good things in life
Elizabeth@ Food Ramblings recently posted…Apple Cheddar Biscuits
I love this. I’m all about permission, but realize it’s easier said than done… Lately I’ve given myself permission to “let it be easy & fun”. Being aware of this and looking for “how” things can be easier and fun is changing the way I work, live and definitely has impacted my stress level! GREAT post!
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My husband and I were recently in this point of transition. Talking and talking but never making that leap. And then one week enough was enough and we took action. Now our life is completely changing. We’re still a little scared but super hopeful and excited for this new adventure.
Love this thought process! 😀 I could say yes to shutting the laptop and spending the day outdoors with my kids!
i need to say yes more often.great post and great timing
Melinda recently posted…S’mores Cookies #recipe
This is SO true! I have dreamed and envisioned and hoped and even worked…. but I needed to claim it and know I was worthy! I love this reminder!
Deepak Chopra’s book “The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire” was a tremendous help for me 🙂
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What a great post. Sometimes I forget to give myself permission….must remember.
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Oh this is such a motivational and inspirational post. I think we do need to say YES and give ourselves permission every day for any reason at all. Perfect post!
Brandy recently posted…6 Ways your Kids can Make Money This Summer
I need to allow myself permission to take time out for myself. I need to run for the door when my husband tells me to get some time away!
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Taking control of our family budget! I feel like a lot of our stress comes from the fact that we let our family budget control us instead of vice versa, so I am definitely working on that.
Great post, yes you have to say YES. Take time for yourself. I am a big believer in dreaming and talking about it out loud to make it real.
April Smith Decheine recently posted…Skinny Stuffed Mushroom Recipe
I need to say yes to saying no more. I need to let myself know that I don’t have to stress myself out by doing for others all the time. If I said no occasionally, I would have more time for me and less stress.
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I am finally giving myself permission to say no. It’s a wonderful feeling.
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I could say yes to more sleep. I never get enough of it.
I really loved this post. So informative and motivating
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I think this is a great post. Too often we forget to give ourselves permission because we are always doing it for others.
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Thanks for the reminder! Change IS good!
I need to give myself permission to do alot of things. lol Great post to remind us about that.
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LOVE this post! I’m giving myself permission to give my blog a real chance and try to make it my full time job!
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It’s about time we care for ourselves and give ourselves the reward we deserve.
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I love your way of looking at things like this. I need to give myself permission to do some things for me!
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