I’ve been sharing my life here for almost four years. It’s been a fun and rewarding journey. I’m NOT stopping! I’ve loved getting to know all of you and following your stories too. I have expanded though. I’ve mentioned before that I had stared another site. It’s my namesake and it’s totally devoted to inspiring mamas to find + follow our passions. It’s been received really well. In case you haven’t been over, be sure to check it out!
As mamas we have a lot on our plate at all times. There are a ton of huge changes that come our way once our name changes to mama. One change I wasn’t ready for is the the placement of my dreams on the back burner. Soon after having my first child, people made it clear to me that my life was changing and my dreams needed to take a backseat – indefinitely. They weren’t trying to be Debbie Downer’s. They meant it in the best way possible. I’m all about my life changing. I want to be a hands-on, engaging, snuggle party-having mom. I good with making the sacrifices that come with that. I embrace it. So much so, that I had another baby. 
I also more fully embraced my dreams. My thinking is that my dreams are still valid post-baby. They don’t suddenly expire because I have a little person on my hip. What does change is the time I have to pursue those dreams. My priority is making sure my babies are getting all they need even while I make sure I’m following my heart and pursuing things that I love. It’s not easy, for sure. It can be done though.
I should say here that I’m a “prove you wrong” type of girl. If you tell me I can’t do something, I’ll make it my mission to find a way to do it. I took this same attitude when it came to following some of my dreams after my babies made their way into the world. I’ve accomplished a few things and I have a long list of things I want to do still. The way that I see it, my kids will benefit from seeing me make my dreams a reality. I bet they’ll also be inspired to do the same. I call that WINNING!
Since becoming a mom, I have more friends who are moms as well. A hot topic seems to be all of the things we want to do – one day. Write a book, start a business, launch a blog, etc. From all of our conversations, this guide was born. Meet Get it, Mama! It’s a guide I’ve been working on for what seems like forever. I’m talking practical tips for us to do more of what makes us happy all while rocking our number ONE gig!
I’d love for you to check out my new baby! It is a labor of love and it’s FREE! Just click the image below. 🙂
Tell me, what do you struggle with when it comes to balancing babies and pursuing your passions/dreams?
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You’re kids are SO adorable! This is a very inspiring post and even though I don’t have kids at the moments, I will remember this advice for when I do get blessed with them 🙂
Lindsay recently posted…Alternatives To Dairy Products
What a fun new project, It looks like it’s going to be a lot of fun!
Jordan recently posted…My Home Office Makeover
congrats on the new site! it sounds like it’s going to be great!
stephanie recently posted…Babymoon at Lakeway Resort and Spa
Good luck with your guide! I struggle with finding time to do the things I need and want to do and being able to spend a lot of time with my daughter and teach her. Of course she comes first though.
Alisha Hodges recently posted…Dawn Weiner: Tales of an Annoying and Clingy Friend
I agree- your dreams are still there. It’s important to go after them at the right time of life!
This is so great. There is no reason for moms to give up their dreams when they have children!
Melissa recently posted…Audio Fest at Best Buy: Check Out the Heos by Denon Wireless Speaker
Congratulations on this new adventure!! I am a strong believer that you can still follow your dreams while being a Mommy! 🙂
mandy @ a sorta fairytale recently posted…5 Ways I Keep My Sanity
I struggle with this as well. I put my blog on the back burner when I had my second child and left it there for a long time. I didn’t think there was any way for me to juggle all of my mom and wife stuff plus blogging. But it is immensely important to have dreams, and that is something I remind myself of frequently.
ashley recently posted…How to: Baby Sign Language
What an awesome idea! I have such a hard time motivating myself WITHOUT kids, so I can only imagine what it’s like to juggle everything at once. Good for you for starting this new project, and good luck!
Joelle recently posted…Apartment 1056 :: Welcome Home
I know many people who feel just as fulfilled by birthing “book babies” as they do real babies. Congrats on both the real babies and the project baby! I’m sure it feels great to let it out into the world!
Congrats on the new site!
Selbe recently posted…Ralph & Russo – Paris Haute Couture Autumn/Winter 2014
Really such an inspiring post, glad to know just because you have kids don’t mean you stop dreaming and pursing those dreams. Good luck with the book
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I have a 4 year old son who is full of energy and keeps me very busy! I struggle mostly with the guilt of being on my laptop writing while he is home with me. I know I have to learn to balance my work and passions with Mom life, I feel I am doing a PRETTY good job, but none of us are perfect. I am excited to check out your guide! xxo
I think that what I struggle with the most is organization. If I were more organized I think I could set aside more time to focus on my personal goals.
Yay for your new adventure! The guide sounds awesome!
Congratulations! How super exciting that you have this guide out! As a fellow published author, I know how much time and effort goes into getting your thoughts into written words and then getting it to the public, so I really wanna say BRAVO! <3
Shipra recently posted…Milani Bella Eyes 11 – 15 Photos, Swatches, and Review
Aw this is a great post, I love the advice you gave. I currently don’t have children (yet), but hope to some day… sooner than later!
Nancy recently posted…Top 5 Moisturizers to wear in your 30′s
What a wonderful new blog you started. I love the idea. I am definitely going to check it out. I literally wrote a similar thing last night about how my perfectionism is what holds me back.
Chriseten recently posted…10 Ways Perfectionism Can Hold Us Back
Seriously. You have the most darling kids!
Congrats on the new blog! Will definitely give it, and your article, a read 😀
Rebekah recently posted…KBShimmer – Iris My Case
well, i’m not a mom, but I definitely struggle to find the balance between the blog world and real life! work, family, friends…they all require attention and relationships, but so does the blogging world!
Betsy recently posted…Worship While You Work It
Congratulations!!!!
My struggle is that I really don’t know what those dreams are. I’m so flighty.
LaToya recently posted…Guess What I Did!
Totally been there! There’s a worksheet in the guide to help figure out what you may be passionate about. Check it out, mama!:)
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You go girl! I can’t wait to check it all out!
I have not experienced this yet but reading all of these comments really makes me think ill be able to handle it. You are a rockstar!
Neely recently posted…Wedding Wednesday: 2 Months To Go!
Finding time to do everything. I think it doesn’t matter how long the nap time is. It feels like I never have enough time during the day.
Dina Farmer recently posted…Tea Tree and Olive Oil Scurb
I’ve been checking out your other space! Good job! Can’t wait to download this!
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You already know, I appreciate you girl! 🙂
Cam recently posted…I’ve got a new baby…
This is a great post. I would say don’t discount the role your kids can play in you reaching your dreams…I was surprised how involved kids want to get in topics you otherwise might not think would interest them.
Cailin @ Mommy Dove recently posted…John McCain’s Makeup Costs $5,000 – And Don’t Mention His Hair
I love your new baby. I had my first son very young and let go of some of my dreams. It took years to get back to them and now I’m on a completely different and way more awesome journey. I think that things happen for a reason and they always work out how they are supposed to.
Jessica Doll recently posted…Wanderlust / Oasis Collections
congrats on your new venture! sounds super inspiring!
Jenn @ hellorigby! recently posted…Summer Reading: What I Read in July
This is something that is going to be a reality for me in a few weeks time when my baby boy arrives. I think it’s going to be hard to juggle chasing my dreams and a baby, but we will see how we go.
Jemma @ Celery and Cupcakes recently posted…{Recipe} Strawberry and Watermelon Cooler
This is so awesome! I am definitely hoping that I still follow my dreams once I’m a mama!
Raewyn recently posted…Carpenter’s Daughter for Michael J Foxx’s Foundation for Parkinsons
What a great new site you started. I’m excited for you!
Karissa recently posted…I know it’s a bit late but here are August goals!
It most definitely is possible to follow your dreams, even when you become a mom. And I think it’s a good idea to follow them because your children will be able to be along for the journey.
Carly Anderson recently posted…Strawberry Shortcake Muffins and National Olive Oil Month
Great post and good luck with the new site. I know what you mean about people thinking you’re dreams have to end when you have a little one, I’m about to start a whole new degree with a 1 year old and everyone seems so shocked that I want to but I totally believe you have to follow your own dreams 🙂
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