I’m being watched. At all times, I’m being watched. Whether I like it or not, there are eyes on me and all that I do. I’m not always sure how I feel about that.

It’s not what you say, it’s what you do.

As a mom, I’m finding these words couldn’t be more true. My kids make me take a look at the good as well as the not so pretty stuff about me. It’s like they are tiny mirrors that show me my flaws while still seeing the good in me. It can be a challenge to be under that kind of microscope. I want them to see the best of me. I think it’s also important that they know that I’m a real person though, too. Did I mention that it’s a challenge?  It is helping me to be a better person. For that, I’m thankful.

There have been a few times lately that it’s been so obvious that I’m being watched. The whole idea came right home recently with my son. He was asking me for an orange. He wanted to peel it himself. I handed it over. He was having a hard time breaking through the thick peel to get it started. He reluctantly handed it back to me – defeated. I peeled it and handed it back to him. As I was giving him the orange, I noticed he already had one – perfectly peeled. I asked him if he had peeled it himself. He proudly told me that he had. He said, “I learned from you. I watched you, Mommy!”

Recently, I’ve been getting back to my old fitness routine. I have been taking better care of myself and making my fitness a priority again. That includes me working out every morning. I have these thirty minute work outs with Jillian Michaels that has been bringing on the sweat.

THIS SWEATMy daughter has a project to do for those thirty minutes. I hand her some puzzles or play doh or she just plays with her toys. Of course, she can’t spend the WHOLE time doing that. She jumps in and works out with me too. It’s really fun to watch her get involved. It’s at that point that I like that I’m being watched. I like that she’s a witness to me taking care of myself. I’m thrilled that she’s getting to see fitness as a priority.

While working out one day, I was getting worn out with one of the moves. I decided to just half step my way through it. Baby girl wasn’t having that at all. She looked at me and said, “Mama, do like girl!” She called me out! Jillian was demanding high kicks and I just wasn’t getting high enough. I had to step my game up thanks to my little workout partner.

Lesson: Even when you think they aren’t looking, your kids are watching you. The other lesson is to never underestimate the determination of a child. My son and his persistence with the orange is proof of that.

These watchful eyes are what keep me moving. They keep me making progress toward my dreams. Through my daughter watching me work out she’s getting to see fitness as the norm. I love that both of my babies are seeing me pursuing my dreams as normal too. I want them to know that whatever they want is possible. If I can model that for them – even better!

What cool stuff do you think your kids are picking up by watching you?

31 comments on “I’m Being Watched…”

  1. Yep this post is right on point! My kids watch everything. They all watch intently to what I’m doing with the baby and I find them mimicking things with him it’s really cute! I always try to watch what I say and do though!

  2. Kids are always watching there parents. Picking up all these little behaviors. I have seen my friends daughter start twirling her hair after seeing her mom do it all the time.

  3. I know for a fact that my boys watching me read has helped them find joy in reading. There are also a few things I’m not too proud of that my kids pick up, but I’m trying to fix. Like yelling. I realized I needed to stop yelling when my oldest was yelling at his little brother. I was like, this sounds familiar.
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  4. I hope that my kids have picked up some good habits from watching me over the years. I always try to smile at everyone and hold doors open for people. Kindness is so important. You never know what kind of day someone is having. A simple smile could change someones whole day.

  5. I love this article. It’s so true my daughter watches everything I do and everything I say. The other day she told her cousin you better go to college and start your own business like mommy so you don’t have to work for the man. lol. I laughed so hard.
    Great post thanks for sharing. 🙂

  6. Camesha, I love this!!! I found a random time yesterday to show my 2.5 year old an episode of Daniel Tiger while the baby was sleeping. I had no idea when the baby would wake up but I figured it was better to run, even a mile or 2 than none at all… After running 2 miles, I picked up some weights… The show was over and my little girl was like “I want to exercise with you mom!” She got on my yoga mat and did her variation of a plank… And then she goes, “Exercise feels good!” I had to give myself a pat on the back for that.. If that’s the only thing she ever learns from me, I think I would be ok with that.
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  7. Wonderful post! I couldn’t agree more. They are always watching! This truth is scary at tunes but also very empowering!

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