What’s the biggest change that happens after becoming a mama? I don’t know that I could pick just one. There’s the whole thing with exhaustion. That’s real! I remember wondering if I would EVER get sleep again. With my first child, I remember feeling like people forgot about me. Everybody wanted to talk to me but they only wanted to talk about my baby. I get it though. He was all I wanted to talk about too. 🙂
That’s kind of where it started though. People made it clear to me that my life was changing and my dreams needed to take a backseat – indefinitely. They weren’t trying to be Debbie Downer’s. They meant it in the best way possible. I’m all about my life changing. I want to be a hands-on, engaging, snuggle party-having mom. I good with making the sacrifices that come with that. I embrace it. So much so, that I had another baby. 
The thing I couldn’t accept is my dreams taking an indefinite backseat. My thinking is that my dreams are still valid post-baby. They don’t suddenly expire because I have a little person on my hip. What does change is the time I have to pursue those dreams. My priority is making sure my babies are getting all they need even while I make sure I’m following my heart and pursuing things that I love. It’s not easy, for sure. It can be done though.
I should say here that I’m a “prove you wrong” type of girl. If you tell me I can’t do something, I’ll make it my mission to find a way to do it. I took this same attitude when it came to following some of my dreams after my babies made their way into the world. I’ve accomplished a few things and I have a long list of things I want to do still. The way that I see it, my kids will benefit from seeing me make my dreams a reality. I bet they’ll also be inspired to do the same. I call that WINNING!
Since becoming a mom, I have more friends who are moms as well. A hot topic seems to be all of the things we want to do – one day. Write a book, start a business, launch a blog, etc. From all of our conversations, this guide was born. Meet Get it, Mama! It’s a guide I’ve been working on for what seems like forever. I’m talking practical tips for us to do more of what makes us happy all while rocking our number ONE gig!
I’d love for you to check out my labor of love, it’s FREE! Just click the image below. 🙂
Tell me, what do you struggle with when it comes to balancing babies and pursuing your passions/dreams?
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I came into my own after having kids, too. I started to workout and hang out with friends MORE. I need that time away to be my best.
Robin (Masshole Mommy) recently posted…How To Find Good Deals At Yard Sales
This is fantastic! I love that it’s geared towards working out of the home and stay at home moms.
Jaime recently posted…Tips for running a Color Run #Happiest5k
This is so great. Being a mom doesn’t mean you have to give up your dreams. Thank you for sharing this!
Kenda recently posted…Luminess Unveils Their Newest Pro Airbrush Makeup System: EPIC
Congratulations! I would love to write a book. It’s on my bucket list. I also have worked from home ever since my kids were born.
Michelle Swank recently posted…Branson, Missouri – It’s Fun For the Whole Family! @ExploreBranson @SDCAttractions
Love it! I am going to check it out, sounds like a perfect read for me.
Everything changes after kids, doesn’t it? I feel like I have a little more breathing room these days, because my boys aren’t babies/toddlers any more.
Shell recently posted…Outlander: Why You Should Watch This New Show
I think for me it is harder for me to concentrate on what I want more than the kids.I am trying to focus on my dreams but kids always come first :).
Kay Adeola recently posted…Natural Healing Magic From Chuckling Goat!
My kids were constantly sick- and still are- so the thing I struggle most between having kids and achieving my dreams is cost. I have had to find new ways to do things I want to do.
I definitely struggle with TIME. There is NEVER enough time in any day, to get what I want, done! Also, scheduling time with the kids, alone. One on one time.
Shop with Me Mama (Kim) recently posted…The Best Play Kitchen For Toddlers!
I found that having a kid was my dream. And then I ended up being more social because I was forced to be out in the playgrounds with the other parents. And then I found blogging which gave me a work outlet, and an opportunity to provide more fun for my family. The road unfolded before me as it does for most of us, and I am grateful!
Mitch recently posted…@Crest New Sensi-Stop Tooth Sensitivity Strips! #ad
I’m not a momma yet but can only imagine what it’s going to be like! Thanks for the great advice!
Betsy Mitchell recently posted…Relaxing Things to Do in Dallas
I don’t have kids yet but I love your perspective! I admire you for going after your dreams and trusting that there’s value in you doing that (for them too!). x
Anne Omland recently posted…How to Instantly Feel More Engaged at Work
When I was raising my kids, that’s all I did. It was everything to me so my dreams are actually just now starting to appear. 🙂
Liz Mays recently posted…Making a #PromisetoBaby
I can totally relate to what you’ve talked about in this post. I didn’t give up on my dreams I’m just taking things slower than I would have pre baby. I’m still going after what I want, but it’s going to take longer. No big deal.
Janel (A Mom’s Take) recently posted…How to Get Ready for Back to School
Congrats on getting this baby out into the world! Looks like a great read!
Lily recently posted…If Your Body Could Talk
I started blogging after my youngest son was born. I decided to start a breast pump review site to help moms realize that they could continue to breastfeed once they returned back to work. Then after a medical leave of absence from the work force, I ended up expanding my reach and started Uplifting Families. It has been a labor of love for almost two years.
I really love this post, it’s hard sometimes to find a balance! I always tell myself by me being able to succeed in my dreams only makes me more capable in helping my kids succeed in theirs!
Life does change after kids, but for me in a good way.
Amber NElson recently posted…10 Easy Snacks Kids Can Make
It does seem that all takes back seat to the baby. Never give up the dreams. You are so right. Dreams do not expire.
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Well, my babies are my pets – so it’s much easier to manage! Congrats on your ebook.
Chrysa recently posted…Denon HEOS 5 Review from August Audio Fest at Best Buy
This is a great idea for a book. As moms, we often put everything we want on the sidelines while we take care of our kids. What we fail to realize is that we can do both!
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I’m with you, Camesha! Still making my dreams a huge priority after having two sons. It’s totally do-able, and like you said, I think it’s good for our kids to witness! Congrats on the book!
Having kids is such a life-changer. However, I think the way you evolve as a person yourself can be the most surprising part of it all. I love the name you chose!
Ashley recently posted…Homemade Lime Coconut Water
What a great idea. I think so many new moms get overwhelmed that this guide will be a great help to them.
Beth@FrugalFroggie recently posted…Healthy Home Company Sanitizer
I’m finding a balance between raising three kids and owning my own business. Both give me so much happiness!
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I have to say, I love that this ebook is geared towards moms! It’s definitely doable, being able to pursue your dreams after having children!
Carly Anderson recently posted…Teepee
My biggest problem is time. There does t seem to be enough time to Persue my dreams, work a full time job, take care of my child, and bond with my husband. Sigh. I like sleep too much. Lol
Learning balance has been a work in progress for me. My youngest is off to school this year so I think things will get easier.
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congrats on this amazing venture. motherhood and life is a daily balance
Melinda recently posted…Never Go Hungry On @CarnivalCruise #cruisingcarnival
Congrats on your guide! I can empathize with your journey
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Thank you for sharing this. I don’t have kids just yet but it is insightful to see what other moms are going through and their quest to find that balance.
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I struggle with the time to get it all done. I have to prioritize or things don’t happen.
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I have a lot of friends who have had children over the years and gave up their dreams when they did. Over the years they came to regret it and eventually got back on their path. I think it is perfectly natural to do, but at the same time, one must continue to live. Life doesn’t stop just because children are born it just becomes different.
Everyday Living with Chrys recently posted…Welcome to Everyday with Chrys
I’m a “prove you wrong” type of girl too! It’s a struggle but I feel like truly started following my dreams after I had kids.
Amy @ Marvelous Mommy recently posted…LEGOLAND Discovery Center Atlanta
Congrats on finishing the ebook. I can’t wait to complete one for myself!
krystalskitsch recently posted…Chocolate Chip Bacon Pancakes #BaconMonth
I love this! I am also a stay at home mom and I love it because I get to spend more time with my family!
It can be very hard to find balance as a mom. I do think I have become an even better mother in the last couple of years.
Lori recently posted…Enter Your Child in the ‘Have a Ball Stunt Hunt’ with Fruit Shoot
I just started trying to monetize my blog. The kiddos want me to play. It is a tough balance!
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Congratulations on your book. I’m sure it will be a great resource for a lot of moms.
I would love to write a book! So many changes happened after I became a mom. Biggest being I grew up, fast! I love being a mama… And I love this post!
Yup, that’s how it is when you have a kid for sure. I love the book idea! That’s awesome.
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Balance is a challenge. It can be rough, but with determination it’s possible to pursue your dreams.
My daughter is 10 years old now and I still haven’t slept well since she was conceived-LOL.! Good sleep is definitely a struggle.
This is so awesome. Good for you for not giving up on your dreams!
I decided to stop working and stay at home with the kids for 7 years. It meant delaying my career but it was worth it.
So true! If anything we are better after having children. LOL It’s a struggle but we are making it work.
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Camesha Darling – gosh i could feel your passion coming off the page. I’m not a Mama (yet!) but have plenty of soul sisters around me to know that having kids is life changing and nearly all of them have put there lives/dreams on hold “until someday when the kids are older..”
So having role models like yourself – and passionate and committed ones at that to show them a different way – is oh soooo refreshing, inspiring and motivating.
And like you so rightly say – its setting an example for your kids that nothing should stop them from fulfilling your dreams – So yes WIN WIN!
You Go Mama Camesha! 🙂 ❤ ❤ x
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Congrats on writing your guide! It can definitely be hard to find balance after having babies. Thanks for sharing.
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hooray for you, camesha! congratulations on making your dreams come true while setting such a fabulous example for your sweet kids (adorable picture by the way!).
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The hubs and I are waiting to have kids to get the big dreams out of the way. We’re both the type of people who would put our stuff to the side until it was to late. We’d hate to possibly resent each other or the kids later in life because of that.
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What a fantastic guide Camesha!! You are so right, and I admire your energy in being both an awesome mom and an inspiring dream pursuer!! <3